{"id":433,"date":"2025-04-20T17:07:35","date_gmt":"2025-04-20T15:07:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/?p=433"},"modified":"2025-04-20T17:07:35","modified_gmt":"2025-04-20T15:07:35","slug":"myslis-si-ze-si-v-poriadku-ale-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/?p=433","title":{"rendered":"Mysl\u00ed\u0161 si, \u017ee si v poriadku. Ale si?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hovor\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee si mala norm\u00e1lne detstvo.<br>Nebolo zl\u00e9. Ni\u010d dramatick\u00e9. Rodi\u010dia sa postarali, mala si \u010do jes\u0165, kde b\u00fdva\u0165.<br>Nikto na teba nekri\u010dal. Nikto ti neubl\u00ed\u017eil.<br>A tak si si zvykla hovori\u0165, \u017ee si v poriadku. \u017de si vlastne mala \u0161\u0165astie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale niekedy, ke\u010f \u0165a niekto obj\u00edme \u2013 stuhne\u0161.<br>Ke\u010f sa ti niekto pozer\u00e1 do o\u010d\u00ed pr\u00edli\u0161 dlho, uhne\u0161 poh\u013eadom.<br>Ke\u010f ti niekto povie \u201esi kr\u00e1sna\u201c alebo \u201e\u013e\u00fabim \u0165a\u201c \u2013 zrazu nevie\u0161, \u010do s t\u00fdm.<br>Nie preto, \u017ee to nec\u00edti\u0161. Ale preto, \u017ee tomu never\u00ed\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A mo\u017eno ani nevie\u0161 pre\u010do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Nevie\u0161, \u010do ti ch\u00fdbalo, preto\u017ee si to nikdy neza\u017eila<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017eno si nikdy neza\u017eila objatie len tak.<br>Mo\u017eno ti mama nikdy nepovedala: <em>\u013d\u00fabim \u0165a.<\/em><br>Mo\u017eno \u0165a otec nikdy nepochv\u00e1lil, ke\u010f si to najviac potrebovala.<br>Mo\u017eno si sa ako diev\u010da nau\u010dila, \u017ee tvoje em\u00f3cie nie s\u00fa d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9. \u017de nie je miesto pre tvoje slzy, obavy, ot\u00e1zky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A tak si sa nau\u010dila pre\u017ei\u0165. Fungova\u0165. Nepotrebova\u0165. A toto si pova\u017eovala a st\u00e1le pova\u017euje\u0161 za &#8222;norm\u00e1lne&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Si schopn\u00e1, nez\u00e1visl\u00e1, \u201ev pohode\u201c. Ale za ak\u00fa cenu?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vie\u0161 sa o seba postara\u0165. \u013dudia \u0165a obdivuj\u00fa. M\u00e1\u0161 svoj \u017eivot zvl\u00e1dnut\u00fd.<br>Ale vo vn\u00fatri sa niekedy c\u00edti\u0161 osamel\u00e1.<br>Nie preto, \u017ee by si bola sama \u2013 ale preto, \u017ee si naozaj nikto ned\u00edva <em>dovn\u00fatra<\/em>.<br>A mo\u017eno ani ty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie si bezcitn\u00e1. Si len odpojen\u00e1.<br>Nie z l\u00e1sky \u2013 ale z bezpe\u010dia.<br>Lebo tak si sa to nau\u010dila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>L\u00e1ska, ktor\u00fa si nedostala<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017eno tvoji rodi\u010dia boli dobr\u00ed \u013eudia.<br>Nikdy ti fyzicky neubl\u00ed\u017eili.<br>Ale l\u00e1sku nevedeli prejavi\u0165. Nevedeli sa \u0165a dot\u00fdka\u0165, nevedeli poveda\u0165, \u010do c\u00edtili.<br>A tak si si vytvorila vlastn\u00fd jazyk \u2013 jazyk ticha, v\u00fdkonnosti, silen\u00e9ho pokoja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A mo\u017eno pr\u00e1ve preto nevie\u0161, ako sa dnes otvori\u0165.<br>Nevie\u0161, ako prij\u00edma\u0165 l\u00e1sku.<br>Nevie\u0161, \u010do c\u00edti\u0161.<br>Nevie\u0161, ako si dovoli\u0165 by\u0165 \u017eena \u2013 cel\u00e1. Nie len funk\u010dn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>L\u00e1sku si nahradila v\u00fdkonom<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nau\u010dila si sa by\u0165 u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e1.<br>Nau\u010dila si sa by\u0165 rozumn\u00e1, schopn\u00e1, praktick\u00e1.<br>Nau\u010dila si sa by\u0165 \u201edobr\u00e1\u201c \u2013 pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch.<br>D\u00e1va\u0161 druh\u00fdm energiu, l\u00e1skavos\u0165, pomoc\u2026 ale niekedy sama nevie\u0161, odkia\u013e ju bra\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00e1\u0161 probl\u00e9m prija\u0165 pochvalu.<br>Z\u013eah\u010duje\u0161, ke\u010f ti niekto prejav\u00ed nehu.<br>Neznesie\u0161, ke\u010f niekto pr\u00edli\u0161 dlho ml\u010d\u00ed \u2013 lebo vtedy by si mo\u017eno za\u010dala po\u010du\u0165 vlastn\u00e9 vn\u00fatro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Si v pohode \u2013 ale len navonok<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Funguje\u0161. Pracuje\u0161. Star\u00e1\u0161 sa.<br>M\u00e1\u0161 preh\u013ead, m\u00e1\u0161 discipl\u00ednu, m\u00e1\u0161 \u201esvoje veci vyrie\u0161en\u00e9\u201c.<br>Ale niekedy, v tichu ve\u010dera, ke\u010f sa nikto nepozer\u00e1\u2026 m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee ti nie\u010do unik\u00e1.<br>Nie\u010do podstatn\u00e9. Nie\u010do, \u010do nevie\u0161 \u00faplne pomenova\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie je to chyba.<br>Je to len hlas tej \u010dasti v tebe, ktor\u00e1 bola kedysi mal\u00fdm diev\u010datkom.<br>Tak\u00fdm, \u010do t\u00fa\u017eilo po objat\u00ed. Po pochopen\u00ed. Po poh\u013eade, ktor\u00fd hovor\u00ed:<br><em>Si v poriadku. Tak\u00e1, ak\u00e1 si.<\/em>   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Si teda naozaj <strong>\u201ev pohode\u201c<\/strong>?<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie je to o obvi\u0148ovan\u00ed.  <br>Mo\u017eno tvoji rodi\u010dia robili, \u010do vedeli.<br>Mo\u017eno nevedeli milova\u0165 inak, ne\u017e prakticky.<br>Mo\u017eno sami nepo\u010duli \u201e\u013e\u00fabim \u0165a\u201c \u2013 a nevedeli to da\u0165 tebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale to neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee ty si to nepotrebovala.<br>A neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee dnes u\u017e je neskoro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>By\u0165 v poriadku neznamen\u00e1 nec\u00edti\u0165<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017eno si pre\u017eila bez slzav\u00fdch sc\u00e9n.<br>Mo\u017eno si nikdy nepotrebovala terapiu.<br>Mo\u017eno m\u00e1\u0161 \u201ev\u0161etko pod kontrolou\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale ot\u00e1zka znie \u2013 c\u00edti\u0161?<br>Dovol\u00ed\u0161 si niekedy by\u0165 len tak? Bez \u00falohy, bez v\u00fdkonu, bez obrany?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lebo niekedy skuto\u010dn\u00e9 \u201ev poriadku\u201c za\u010d\u00edna a\u017e vtedy,<br>ke\u010f si dovol\u00ed\u0161 neby\u0165 v poriadku.<br>Ke\u010f si dovol\u00ed\u0161 c\u00edti\u0165 to, \u010do si roky zatl\u00e1\u010dala.<br>Ke\u010f si dovol\u00ed\u0161 prizna\u0165, \u017ee to, \u010do si nedostala, ti ch\u00fdba \u2013 a st\u00e1le ch\u00fdba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Zasl\u00fa\u017ei\u0161 si viac ne\u017e len fungova\u0165<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zasl\u00fa\u017ei\u0161 si dotyk, ktor\u00fd nie je zasl\u00fa\u017een\u00fd.<br>Slovo, ktor\u00e9 ne\u010dak\u00e1 sp\u00e4tn\u00fa v\u00e4zbu.<br>Poh\u013ead, ktor\u00fd \u0165a vid\u00ed \u2013 aj ke\u010f ni\u010d nehr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zasl\u00fa\u017ei\u0161 si l\u00e1sku, ktor\u00e1 \u0165a nehodnot\u00ed.<br>Zasl\u00fa\u017ei\u0161 si jemnos\u0165. Pokoj. Pravdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie preto, \u017ee si siln\u00e1.<br>Nie preto, \u017ee si sa nau\u010dila pre\u017ei\u0165.<br>Ale preto, \u017ee si. A to sta\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Mo\u017eno pr\u00e1ve teraz sa v tebe nie\u010do oz\u00fdva<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie si pokazen\u00e1.<br>Nie si chladn\u00e1.<br>Nie si citovo \u201edivn\u00e1\u201c.<br>Si len \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 sa nau\u010dila fungova\u0165 bez nie\u010doho, \u010do bolo podstatn\u00e9.<br>A teraz sa v nej preb\u00fadza t\u00fa\u017eba \u2013 kone\u010dne to c\u00edti\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dovo\u013e si to.<br>To je ten za\u010diatok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A a ak nevie\u0161, kde za\u010da\u0165, viem ti s t\u00fdm pom\u00f4c\u0165. Viac inform\u00e1ci\u00ed n\u00e1jde\u0161 <a href=\"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/?page_id=71\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"71\">TU<\/a>.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hovor\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee si mala norm\u00e1lne detstvo.Nebolo zl\u00e9. Ni\u010d dramatick\u00e9. Rodi\u010dia sa postarali, mala si \u010do jes\u0165, kde b\u00fdva\u0165.Nikto na teba nekri\u010dal. Nikto ti neubl\u00ed\u017eil.A tak si si zvykla hovori\u0165, \u017ee si v poriadku. \u017de si vlastne mala \u0161\u0165astie. Ale niekedy, ke\u010f \u0165a niekto obj\u00edme \u2013 stuhne\u0161.Ke\u010f sa ti niekto pozer\u00e1 do o\u010d\u00ed pr\u00edli\u0161 dlho, uhne\u0161&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":434,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-433","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezaradene"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-691919.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=433"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":436,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433\/revisions\/436"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=433"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=433"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vedomysvet.sk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=433"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}